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type: "FAQ"
title: "Have you been through this yourself?"
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# Have you been through this yourself?

## Site answer

Yes. I went through a high-conflict divorce and I have sixteen years of sobriety. I know what it feels like to be inside a relationship crisis without the right tools — and I know what becomes possible when you have them. That is not something I studied. It is something I lived. It is why I do this work.[^site]

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