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title: "What if my spouse is being difficult or hostile?"
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# What if my spouse is being difficult or hostile?

## Site answer

That is exactly when this work matters most. High-conflict situations require a different level of strategic thinking — and a different level of composure. I have spent decades inside adversarial proceedings. I know how the other side thinks, what tends to escalate, and what tends to resolve. You do not have to match their energy. You have to be strategic.[^site]

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